December 2010
“No matter how difficult the past, you can always begin again today.”
—Buddha (via quote-book)
“It seems to me the only thing that matters, the only thing that’s even real, is the here and now. And some stuff is important and some stuff isn’t, and I guess time is the only thing that can sort out which is which. That just means, the more we live in the present, the more we store up all the memories, good and bad, the more we have to hold onto once people, places, and things are gone. Because believe me, I speak from experience when I say things can change forever with, like, no warning. So no matter how much you love something or no matter how much you take it for granted, nothing lasts forever. So for now, all we can do is hang on and wait and see and hope…for the future.”
— Claudia Salinger: Party Of Five (via jackiecoffin)
“The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.”
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Maureen Dowd (via kari-shma)
fml.
“One of the best feelings in the world is when you’re hugging tight a person who you love with absolutely everything you have, and they hug you back even tighter.”
—:)
“This is the true measure of love: When we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, and that no one will ever love in the same way after us.”
—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (via reluctantbuddha)
“I didn’t plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt if you planned on falling in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me, love like that has happened only once and that’s why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. I’ll never forget a single moment of it.”
—The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks (via deepfriedjupiter)
“I have boundary issues with men. Or maybe that’s not fair to say. To have issues with boundaries, one must have boundaries in the first place, right? But I disappear into the person I love. I am the permeable membrane. If I love you, you can have everything. You can have my time, my devotion, my ass, my money, my family, my dog, my dog’s money, my dog’s time - everything. If I love you, I will carry for you all your pain, I will assume for you all your debts (in every definition of the word), I will protect you from your own insecurity, I will project upon you all sorts of good qualities that you have never actually cultivated in yourself and I will buy Christmas presents for your entire family. I will give you the sun and the rain, and if they are not available, I will give you a sun check and a rain check. I will give you all this and more, until I get so exhausted and depleted that the only way I can recover my energy is by becoming infatuated with someone else.”
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Eat, Pray, Love (via xfrecklesandtea)
I came up to a realization, that is so me. I drained myself to death, until I feel numb then I’ll be gone. Sorry. Please not this time. I’m tired of the same old cycle.
For Lack of a Better Name: It ends tonight. →
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I’m sorry for everything.
Had I not done anything during that fateful night, things wouldn’t end up this way. I feel bad for causing you so much pain and confusion. I don’t know what to do. I feel so helpless. I can’t tell anybody, for the fear of ruining how people look at you, and at me for…